Help! My Dog Keeps Crying for Attention

Engaging you in a game of keep-away with your socks. Snagging your sweater while pawing your arm. Dropping a play toy into your lap. Has your dog done any of these things to you? 

Dogs, like people, are social animals, and they thrive on interaction with their loved ones. The most important person in your dog's universe is you. They need you to interact with them, and if they feel neglected, they’ll look for ways to get your attention. Let’s explore the reasons why dogs keep crying for attention and what you can do to help them feel happy, comfortable, and safe! 

Key Takeaways: 

• Dogs often cry for attention when they are excited, anxious, bored, sick, or want to bond with you. 
• Giving your dog playtime and affection each day can help manage attention-seeking behavior. 
  
• Chew toys are a great way to keep dogs entertained and help them manage stress and anxiety. 

Why Do Dogs Want So Much Attention? 

If your dog is constantly whining for attention, they probably want or need something. These common reasons might explain your furry friend’s behavior. 

Reason #1: They’re Excited 

Does your dog pine for attention when you get home or when a visitor stops by? They’re probably just happy to see their favorite people! Joyful tail wagging, high-pitched barking, and maintaining a relaxed posture are all signs your dog is feeling excited. Going for a long walk or even running with your dog can help them settle down. 

Reason #2: They Want to Bond 

When you interact with your dog, both of your brains release oxytocin—the “love hormone” that fosters bonding. If you ever feel a boost of happiness when your dog stares at you or during playtime, that’s oxytocin at work! Cuddling up next to you or gently resting their head on your lap are signs your furry friend wants to spend quality time together. 

Reason #3: They’re Stressed 

Some dogs keep crying for attention when they’re afraid or uncomfortable. Whether they’re dealing with separation anxiety, scared of a loud thunderstorm, or settling into a new home or routine, your dog may look to you for comfort. Signs of stress include panting, lowering their tail, excessive drooling, or giving side-eye. 

Reason #4: They’re Bored 

Dog boredom is one of the most common causes of problem behaviors like barking for attention, whining, digging, and destructive chewing. If your dog feels you haven’t given them enough attention lately, they may resort to one of these activities. Likewise, furry friends who don’t get enough exercise might bring over their leash or favorite ball to “ask” for playtime. 

Reason #5: They’re Sick or in Pain 

If your dog is especially clingy, they could be feeling under the weather or suffering from an injury. Low energy levels or changes in personality might indicate problems such as stomach trouble, joint pain, or an ear infection. Contact your veterinarian for advice if you suspect your dog is unwell. 

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How to Manage Attention Seeking in Dogs 

Addressing the underlying cause of your furry friend’s behavior is the key to helping them feel calm and healthy. Try these tips to keep your dog from constantly whining for attention. 

Tip #1: Train and Maintain 

Dogs of all ages benefit from positive obedience training. Even if your dog is a proud graduate of a training class or two, they need to stay "in training" and be rewarded for doing what you ask. If your dog hasn't had basic obedience training, make it a priority. Don’t forget to pick up some training treats to keep them motivated! 

Tip #2: Exercise 

Another way to stop attention-seeking behavior in dogs is to ensure they’re getting enough exercise. How much physical activity a dog needs will depend on their breed, age, and energy level. But don't send your dog to the backyard alone—remember that they want your attention! 

Tip #3: Supervise 

If your dog is prone to misbehavior, a responsible person needs to supervise them when they’re loose in the house or yard. It can also be helpful to crate train your dog for those times you can't watch them. 

Tip #4: Entertain 

Giving your dog chew toys will engage their body, mind, and mouth. Chewing not only provides a fun activity, but it also prevents destructive behavior and helps dogs cope with stress and anxiety. For even more mental stimulation, give your pooch a treat toy filled with their favorite spreads to keep the chewing fun going! 

Tip #5: Pay Attention 

While you shouldn’t reinforce unwanted behavior, you should pay attention to your dog as much as possible. Will a quick one-minute snuggle really disrupt your schedule? Usually, it won't. If it will, then use the training you've been practicing to redirect your dog's attention in the moment and be sure to find some time for them later. 

An Enriched Dog Is a Happy Dog! 

Making time each day to play with your dog will let them know how much they’re loved. Sprinkle in a little training, and you’ll have a happy, enriched pooch who is less likely to show attention-seeking behavior! 

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